Shabbat services are designed to be much more than a retreat from the world, which would only serve to shield us from Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel’s pointed calls for spiritual accounting. Rather, the synagogue should be a place where we learn how to live as our best and unique selves.
The joyous ushering in of Shabbat via the ancient song “Lekha Dodi,” immediately followed by welcoming the week’s bereaved families into the sanctuary illustrates the fact that we come to synagogue to face life: to celebrate but also be awakened to reality; to find solace but also be shaken from our complacency and wrestle with our fate; to be comforted by our tradition but also to question it.
BJ’s rabbis strive to make sure that happens — to court controversy and to raise disturbing questions many would be more content to leave in the background — and certainly outside the synagogue.
We engage in prayer with kavanah — deep intention and inner devotion — as a way for us to feel the full intensity of life that Heschel spoke of. Through this kind of prayer we can feel wonder, joy, comfort, and gratitude. But we may also feel revulsion, outrage, and righteous indignation about our lives and the world.
“We stress that Shabbat is not just a set of arbitrary prohibitions and rules. It is about setting boundaries that help us transition from doing to simply being.”
These powerful feelings are unleashed when we pray with kavannah, which we call for in the service, whether by challenging words or sweet or discordant melodies. When we make every effort to pray with kavannah from the bema ourselves (rather than merely “leading services”) and by pushing congregants to reach inward toward a genuine intention, people are moved in often unexpected ways. For this reason we offer classes on prayer, the music of our services, and texts to inspire and guide. Only this spiritual intention can take melody to such heights and prayer so deeply within. This is why many people at BJ cry or sing or dance, or clap with every fiber of their being.
Our services endeavor to be anchored by time for quiet reflection, especially at the beginning of Shabbat evening and during Shabbat morning’s Shacharit and then again with quiet niggunim at the end of many climactic melodies.
A BJ service would not be complete without specific teaching of Torah by a rabbi or visiting scholar or social activist to provoke the very deliberate consideration of difficult personal and social issues.
But allowing ourselves to feel or be provoked, whether during contemplation, Torah study, or passionate prayer, is only the beginning. Our feelings must awaken us to questions: What do we do with the feelings? Who are we, in response to those feelings? How do we transform great joy into gratitude, and gratitude into an overwhelming desire to care and give back? How do we convert dismay into the uncontainable urge to redress and repair? How do we make out of anger the righteous indignation that propels each of us to take a stand?
These are the questions whose absence from modern Jewish religious and secular life leaves a void in our souls. And they are exactly the ones that we continually ask ourselves and put before our congregants.
Fridays, Beginning October 12 | Various Times | Various Locations
Have a delicious Shabbat meal, build closer relationships, and help strengthen the BJ community all at the same time! Beginning on October 12, BJ members will be hosting a series of Pay-It-Forward-style Shabbat dinners in their homes.
What does this mean? Each dinner is open to BJ members from particular cohorts of the community; in signing up to attend, you are committing to host a Shabbat dinner of your own for other BJ members in the weeks or months ahead. You could host the same people who attended the first dinner, or invite an entirely new group from your own social circle at BJ. The choice is yours!
Not sure how to host a Shabbat meal? No problem. We’re rolling out a slew of workshops and online resources, including a complete Shabbat Dinner Hosting Guide.
Saturdays, November 3 and 17, December 1 and 15 (2019 dates forthcoming) | 8:45-9:25AM | Chapel
Join Rabbi Roly Matalon to prepare the soul and open the heart for Shabbat morning prayers through the singing of piyutim and reflections on kavannah. This series is open to all, no registration necessary.
Friday, December 14 | Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services | Chapel
A Shabbat-themed breakfast for dinner can’t be beat, so join us for PJ Shabbat! Children will enjoy music, games, and a bedtime story. Come in your coolest, goofiest, or favorite PJs. A special invitation goes out to our Kitah Gan families; email Ayala for your personal, free registration link. Register by Monday, December 10.
Friday, January 11, 2019 | Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services | Chapel
This month’s family Shabbat dinner will be Tu Bishvat themed! Join us for great food, better company, and fun games for children and adults alike as we prepare to celebrate the Jewish birthday of the trees. A special invitation goes out to our Kitah Aleph families; email Ayala for your personal, free registration link. Register by Monday, January 7.
Friday, February 8, 2019 | Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services | Chapel
Join us as we celebrate Jewish communities from all around the world! We will explore different customs, cuisines, and traditions over Shabbat dinner. Do you have a special family tradition? Share it here! A special invitation goes out to our Kitah Gimmel and Dalet families; email Ayala for your personal, free registration link. Register by Monday, February 4th.
Friday, March 8, 2019 | Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services | Chapel
Join the Family Life and Learning team for a joyful Shabbat dinner. As we exit winter, this dinner will celebrate the wonderful ways in which the seasons heighten our different senses. A special invitation goes out to our Kitah Hey families; email Ayala for your personal, free registration link. Register by Monday, March 4.
Friday, May 10, 2019 | Following Kabbalat Shabbat | Chapel
Join us for a special Shabbat Dinner honoring our 7th grade students, officially welcoming them into the BJ Teen Program. Everyone is encouraged to join us beforehand for Kabbalat Shabbat at 6:30PM in the Sanctuary, where our Kitah Zayin students will share reflections from their year with the community. A special invitation goes out to our Kitah Zayin families; email Ayala for your personal, free registration link. Register by Monday, May 6.